“My Cousins” Began with Pam and John Posted by: Pamela (McClanahan) Elcik This content is for members only.Log In Register Share 1 DEC 0 About the Author: Pamela McClanahan is married to Dr. John P. Elcik, IV and they have two children: J.P. and Michelle Kathleen Elcik. "Pam" is retired from a career in Higher Education Admissions as a recruiter of students and a fundraiser. Pam has won awards for her volunteer activity. She loves crafting and has two websites: princessofcrafts.com and beadednecklaces.com supporting her hobbies. Pam was born 29 DEC 1954.